Don't use children as pawns!!!

So this weekend  hubby helped his brother move his washer and dryer to his new place. After they finished they were standing outside talking. Brother tells my hubby that his ex-wife is not wanting to let him get his son for the summer! Why you ask? Because she's toooo concerned about who he's seeing!! Say what? Okay, I understand being concerned about your child being around some random female, but he's been with this girl for awhile. Talk to her on the phone or come to meet her, but don't use that as the only reason!!! Okay, she (ex-wife) has had previous relationships  and the brother has never tried to take his son from her. Not only did she say no to that, but she also said, "Oh, that's why another mans taking care of your son!!!!" Ohhhhh, that's a beat-down, no doubt!!!

Let me give you a little history on the situation: brother is on dialysis and can't work. He is trying to get disability, but that takes time (they're very slow)!!! He has made the arrangements that when he gets it child support will come out of it. Okay, he can't work, the court knows it so..... what gives her the right to say that to him. That was a low blow. Mind you she's just gotten out of prison  for felony charges (selling pills). So it was a point when she wasn't working. It broke my heart hearing that and it's so sad that when parents can't really get along the child(ren) are always the one(s) to suffer. I pray she has a change of heart and will allow him to be with his dad for the summer. I'm SOOOOOO grateful I don't have to deal with all this babymomma/baby daddy stuff!!